Tuesday, May 26, 2015

Avoiding roadblocks

two close trees on a lawn, growing in a'v'with firewood stacked between them
[While I was in La Leche League] I learned that children have within them what they need to know, and that the parent and child are a team, not adversaries. It reinforced the idea that if you are loving and gentle and patient that children want to do what you ask them to do, and that they will come to weaning, potty training, separation from mom, and all those milestones without stress and without fear if you don't scare them or stress them! Seems kind of obvious, but our culture has 1,000 roadblocks.

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photo by Sandra Dodd
of a pretty wooodpile in Laurie Wolfrum's yard

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